Marion R. “Randy” Gravely, 95, passed away peacefully on February 27, 2026, just six days after the passing of his beloved wife, Ernestine Gravely, who died on February 21, 2026, at the age of 91. Their departures so close together reflect the extraordinary bond they shared throughout 70 wonderful years of marriage-a partnership marked by devotion, faith, and a deep, abiding love that guided their lives. Their quiet servitude to others was a hallmark of their marriage.
Randy was born and raised in Lake City, South Carolina, where he developed the values of hard work, integrity, and service that would define his life. He attended The Citadel, an experience that shaped his character and instilled in him a lifelong sense of discipline and honor. Following his education, Randy proudly served his country in the United States Army. After his service, Randy and Ernestine made their home in Lake City for many years, where Randy dedicated his career to the Lake City school system, serving as a teacher, coach, Principal and Administrator. His leadership, fairness, and commitment to students left a lasting impact on the community.
Ernestine was born in Cades, South Carolina, and brought with her a gentle warmth, a nurturing spirit, and a grace that made everyone feel welcomed and cared for. During their years in Lake City, she worked in the school system’s administrative offices, where her kindness, reliability, and steady presence were appreciated by colleagues, students, and families alike.
While living in Lake City, Randy and Ernestine were active members of Lake City United Methodist Church, where they found fellowship, purpose, and a spiritual home. Their faith shaped their lives and the way they cared for others, and their presence in the church community was deeply valued. They also loved music, dancing, travel, tennis and served the community in many volunteer functions.
In 1958, in conjunction with their dear friends RL and Dot Cockfield, Randy helped organize The Western Tour for Boys and Girls, Inc., a summer “camp on wheels” for young people that traveled all over the United States and Canada, which the two couples operated and led for many years.
Upon retirement, Randy and Ernestine moved to Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, where they embraced a new chapter of life filled with relaxation, friendship, and the simple joys of coastal living. They were active members of First United Methodist Church in Myrtle Beach, continuing the faith-centered life that had always guided them.
In their later years, Randy and Ernestine moved to Charleston, South Carolina, to be closer to family. Surrounded by the people they loved most, they enjoyed a quieter pace of life while remaining deeply connected to their children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren.
Together, Randy and Ernestine built a home filled with love, laughter, and the values that shaped generations of their family. Their marriage stood as a testament to commitment and companionship. Through every season of life-its joys, challenges, and everyday moments-they supported one another with a harmony admired by all who witnessed it. Their love story remains an inspiration; a reminder of the beauty found in a life shared faithfully.
Randy and Ernestine are survived by their daughter, Juanita Gravely Rose (Bob) of Big Canoe, Georgia, and their son, Marion Randolph Gravely III (Sharon) of Ravenel, South Carolina. They were proud grandparents to Rachel Rose Newcity (Brett) of Smyrna, Georgia; Raleigh Rose Thornton (Colin) of Charlotte, North Carolina; Rand Gravely (Hannah) of Marietta, Georgia; Chandler Gravely (Ja’kiel) of White Plains, New York; Michael Gravely of Ravenel, South Carolina; and Caleb Gravely of Ravenel, South Carolina. They were also blessed with two great grandchildren, Kenna R. Newcity and Miller J. Newcity, both of Smyrna, Georgia.
A joint Celebration of Life Service will be held at Lake City United Methodist Church on April 11, 2026, at 11:00 AM with Visitation at 10:00 AM in the Fellowship Hall. A private graveside service for the immediate family will follow. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to your charity of choice.